I
am a bit of a romantic. I love reading love stories. I particularly love Nicholas Sparks
books. Love how most have sad endings simply
because life is not always butterflies and roses. Doesn't mean true love cannot happen and instead makes the story more real.
One
of my favorite things about a Nicholas Sparks book is the settings in which the
stories take place. They are typically in
quaint little towns. I love the small
town feel of people knowing their neighbors, tree lined streets, local restaurants
and stores. Makes for a romantically perfect setting.
For
quite some time I have wanted to pack up and move to my small dream town of New
Bern, NC. A place that encompasses all
those things I love about a small town. So imagine my surprise when the veil
was lifted from my “the grass is always greener” eyes the day I realized that I
live in one of those quaint little towns.
I was elated with joy!!!
My idea of the perfect home always consisted of living in a
place where there were sidewalks that actually led somewhere. Like to a park, a neighborhood restaurant,
the local market, a library and so forth.
A place where the streets were lined with trees and an abundance of flowers and greenery. I live there!
I live in the adorable little downtown area of
Wake Forest, NC and it has all of those things I mentioned in the previous
paragraph and more. Not only do I have
my perfect setting but my little house is my perfect cottage. My romantically sweet hideaway
completes the package.
So how does a town keep the romance alive? Let me tell you. Have you ever been a newlywed living with five children? Yeah. Not an easy thing to do. Add to that the reality that the budget is tight
and going on extravagant outings are out of the question. This leaves my remarkable little town to
provide the romance we need for some serious date night escapades. We have become quite creative.
When you are happy, fancy dates are not
required. Time spent alone with your
significant other laughing, talking, and sometimes eating are all you
need. My small town provides the perfect
setting and it's a little romantic!
Before we were married a simple date was taking
a stroll down the street to the neighborhood park. There nestled in the trees is a green swing
overlooking the little creek that winds its way through the trees. It’s our own romantic little spot in the
woods.
Now that we’re married we have discovered the
simplicity of using the car as a getaway. A favorite outing is taking a
ride to our favorite little take-out place once the younger kids are in bed and
sharing dinner together in the car while watching an episode of something
together on Netflix using my phone. We
laugh and have an hour or so of just “us” time.
I love it!
Another thing we utilize is Redbox. A couple of
weekends ago, my hubby recommended renting a movie. We do this a lot. This time instead of driving the two minutes
is takes he suggested we walk. We took a
stroll down those adorable tree lined streets of our little town, talking and holding hands and rented our
movie. We wouldn't have had that precious time had we taken the car.
Earlier this summer hubby and I took a second
honeymoon so to speak. Know where we
went? No where. We stayed home. What a concept! One of my favorite nights was spent simply getting ready and taking a walk to a little restaurant in town for dinner. A few days later a neighbor who had seen us
on our walk stopped us. He had asked
where we were going and once we told him “on a date” his reply was “you two
looked so happy and in love. Keep it
up!” Yes! We definitely will! We will because we know
the importance of keeping the romance alive. Because we know the importance of
time spent together.
My life is simply amazing. It is not always butterflies and roses and we
have our struggles. Nevertheless,
because we know the importance of “keeping the romance alive” we are able to
overcome those struggles. We also know
the importance of kisses, snuggling and cuddling and lots of I love yous. I have discovered that in today’s world there
are many who think we can be too much but from where I have come from there is
no greater way to keep love alive then “loving” your spouse too much! I also believe that it is very important for
my kids to see that marriage is about loving each other not just with words but
in action too. It took some getting used
to for them and they still tell us to get a room sometimes but you know
what? It’s worth it! It is worth it because it creates laughter in
our home and a closeness in our family that is created because love is truly alive
and well.
Today I am thankful for the way in which God
handpicked my home and the little town we now live. That story in and of itself
is pretty special too. This place is
where our love story began and it is where it will continue to grow until God shows us
something different. Until then we will
continue the work of keeping the romance alive!
Romance and marriage are hard things. (especially with kids) It takes work. It takes effort. But the more you put into your marriage, the more romance you have the
more you are going to get out of it! And
trust me when I say, it is totally worth all the effort!!
We've been married 22 yrs ~Phil robbed the cradle ;) ~ & this is a great reminder to enjoy the simple things that make us happy. We love going to the 2nd Fridays in your little downtown.
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