Feelings. We women have a plethora of feelings. Our feelings can drive us in all sorts of crazy directions. Sometimes when we are dealing with hurt, it is incredibly hard to rein those feelings in and look for truth at the heart of a situation.
Every second of every day, evil is at work. Not a minute passes by that evil is not attempting to trip us up or get us tangled in the mess that feelings can bring. When we are hurting, human nature cries for revenge. We want payback. We want to see someone get what is coming to them. Those feelings can drive us to do evil things. That is where truth steps in and we let go of feelings.
Romans 12:21 says that we are “not to be overcome by evil but to overcome evil with good.” Not particularly the thing in which we want to do when we are hurting. It is much easier to lash out. It feels good to get those feelings out. In that moment anyway. Later when conviction sets in, we realize what we have said or done to hurt another and begin feeling worse. Suddenly our troubles have grown. We have created quite the mess.
There is a reason why we are told to overcome evil with good. There is a reason why we are told in Ephesians to be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you. (4:32) When we walk a life professing to follow Jesus, we are to promote peace, kindness, love and forgiveness. When someone has wronged us, we are to turn the other cheek. We are to follow the example set for us by Jesus. If we want forgiveness from God then we must offer forgiveness to others. Personally, it frustrates me. It is hard when my family is constantly being hurt. Truthfully, I am tired of being bullied. I am tired of people who use their power to abuse others. However, I follow an awesome God. He sent His Son to give up His life for me and so I choose to be a reflection of His Son. I choose to forgive and do good. I choose to overcome evil with good and God blesses when we choose good.
So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up. Therefore, whenever we have the opportunity, we should do good to everyone—especially to those in the family of faith.